Check out the post for September 9th. "The God Who Drowns" (title is link cuz I cant figure out how to link in a post)
Read it all. I almost stopped, but its worth it to finish reading.
For myself. I feel okay to know there is a "Divine Plan". It doesn't answer all of our questions, but ultimately, I believe that death is a trial that those of us living have to deal with. Those that have passed on are in a better place. A place I sure do want to be.